Tuesday, April 14, 2009

1 Year Anniversary - Gotcha Day

It’s been a year already…I can hardly believe it. Time has flown by, but at the same time it’s as if J and J have been here forever. It is truly amazing how God places just the right kiddos with just the right family. I watch over and over again, family’s adoption stories unfold and continue to be amazed at how the pieces fit so perfectly. On Easter I wore the same outfit I had on when we met J and J. Jess immediately said, “Mom, that’s the same clothes you had on when you came and got us!” It’s an emotional experience to talk to Jess about things. She is old enough and mature enough to understand the whole process and she doesn’t forget anything. She and I sat one afternoon and she was telling me how scared but happy they were on the day the met us. She said she was happy to have a family but scared because they didn’t know us. I think the grieving of their past started for me a few months ago. The first several months were bonding, training, etc. But I find myself easy to tears the last few months and I think a lot is due to grieving for them and their past. I began translating their protection file and got about half way thru the 200 ish pages. I had to take a mental break. It can be overwhelming. God has blessed us with 4 absolutely amazing and wonderful children, and I fall short as a mother so often and pray for God’s grace and guidance with our precious jewels.

So, what’s been up with us??? Jessica was in her first school play and was SOOOO excited. She spoke of the play every day for 2 months. She got the part of a gypsy moth. She had to dress as a gypsy with wings. She fit the part…smile. She practiced her lines and knew them well. She was nervous to get on stage, which was cute. She knew every move and word to every song and was sure to wave to all of the family in the audience. My mom cried when she saw her on stage…but she also cried when she saw Emi in a track race passing up 3 girls and putting her relay team in first…proud grandma!



Joaquin got to celebrate his 6th birthday on Saturday with family and friends. We went to an inflatable bouncer place, which was perfect for kindergartners and for Joaquin’s energy. His birthday is on Friday…my baby will be 6!




Emilee was inducted to the National Honor Society. She has had straight A on her report card all year. Once in 7th grade you can be asked to join the National Honor Society.




Easter was a lot of fun too. They had never colored eggs and thought it was a bunch of fun to color eggs, have an egg hunt and celebrate Jesus with the family.









Nate had 4 permanent teeth pulled this morning, so no big plans for today, our Gotcha Day. But yesterday, Eric took off at lunch and met us at the Children’s Museum. It’s not as much fun for Emi and Nate, they are getting kind of old for it, but Jess and Joaquin had a blast and Emi and Nate were super sports. They helped and played with the J and J and enjoyed themselves too. We went for ice cream after several hours of playing. It was a great day just the 6 of us staying close to home and just enjoying each other.





A year ago today, a major chapter in our lives began, a chapter filled with lots of memories and an unforgettable time, an amazing journey.

10 comments:

Jennifer said...

Wow - a year already?? Congrats!! I love looking at the pictures :-)

Jennifer

Wendi and Benjamin Wood said...

Congratulations! It's amazing the transformation that occurs not only with our children but also to us and our families thru this process. God is good! And you are a great mom! You are blessed and those children will sing praises about their Mami one day... and you'll be cring too...with grandma! =) A sweet moment, not a sad one; an endearing moment.

Love the pics! They are all just beautimus! (I like to make up words every now and then!) =)

THE CALDERARO'S said...

What a special day we share huh? I can not believe a year has passed so quickly. Your kids are sooo awesome and kind. I too believe God chose our children for us before they were born. Why J&J had to experience what they did, I do not know. The important thing is that they are home. Happy bday to Joaquin and hugs to all.

Amy Lynn said...

I can't believe that it's been a year since you've had J&J. I love being able to read your journeys, see your pics and knowing how well it's all been for you guys. So happy for you all!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations have followed your journey since the beginning. You have four beautiful children.
Maria

Genece said...

Wow, time sure does go right on by! Can't hardly believe it's been a year already. So good to see the pictures. They are all such beautiful children and you are certainly justified as proud parents.

I got a kick out of your comment about wearing the same outfit on Easter as you wore upon meeting the kids. I got similar responses from my kiddos upon wearing that "Colombia meeting day" outfit again on Easter day too.

Joanna said...

So happy for all of you...God is so good!

Joanna

Laura S said...

Sounds like a wonderful celebration of family...not just for one day, but every day. Congratulations on your first year.

The Jensen Family said...

Your blog just took me back to a year ago--what an incredible time it was. I remember hanging on your every word each and every day as we prepared to travel to Bogota. Just wish we could have met but was glad you could finally head home! The kids look absolutely fantastic and are so happy. May God continue to grace you with the love and happiness you all have found. Congrats!

Traci

Juniper said...

WOW!! I can't believe that it has been a whole year....and now some (cuz I am just now catchin up! LOL)

It's been an amazing journey for you and your family. I am so glad that everything has turned out so well. They have had a great family to come to live with and love and become part of. I know that Emi and Nate love being big brother and sister too.

I'm glad that everyone had a great Easter and could celebrate with some fun too...searchin for eggs!! :-)

Love all of the pics...I love watchin your family grow and sharing your stories. It was a long process to get them home to you and now how time flies huh?!

Congrats Emi on National Honor Society...thats great!!! And happy birthday lil man!!!

Hope that things continue to go well and continue on your excelent happy path!!!

Love ya!
Jenn