Monday, June 30, 2008

June in Review

I can’t hardly believe June is over…where does the time go. We are doing wonderfully here and enjoying every moment as family of 6. I am realizing that in the next few weeks we will need to start doing school shopping and preparing for the fall. Time really does fly and I’m not so sure I want the next phase to come. Actually I am ready, I think that they will love school and will have much to be proud of themselves for. Jessica enjoys learning and will succeed, Joaquin gets frustrated easily when he can’t get a concept or doesn’t understand, but is always so proud of himself when he does something well and strives to do well.

So what has been going on with the Hollis’ in June. Well, we do a lot of running and playing, but making sure we have some down time too. The kids have adjusted (all 4 of them) extremely well, I can’t imagine it having gone any smoother. Jess and Emi have bonded so well and the boys, well, they are just boys, all “boy”. I have some pics to help dictate how we have spent some of our time.

Joaquin and Jess are doing well with English. They understand a lot more than they use, but Joaquin is using quite a bit more English the last two weeks and is catching on. Jess wants to learn so badly but is reluctant to use it, but understands a great deal. Joaquin’s pronunciation is really clear, but Jess is so cute, she can’t make the “th” sound and her “r” sound is always trilled even on her English words. I understand her, but it’s like a baby when only the mother understands what they are saying and has to translate for others. It will all come together in time, they have only been in the states for a month and a half.

They walk around the house dancing and singing as if they have always been here. Jess knows the rules how to behave with no problems. We can take her anywhere and she knows what we expect from her and has no trouble following along. Joaquin is learning and is making great strides, but is just so silly and care free that he sometimes forgets. The love the pool and all the running around. As a matter of fact yesterday we didn’t have to go out, we stayed at home all day. And near bed time they questioned why we stayed home all day and why we couldn’t go out. I had to giggle. I remember when being out for 10 minutes was a big deal and they begged to go home. Now they love to get in the car and see what the next adventure is. However, the running, even for fun stuff, wears on them. They are always falling asleep in the car when we’ve been out. Ten minute power naps do them good.

We have visited the school a few times and we ran into Jessica’s teacher at the park a few weeks ago. Nate had this teacher in first grade and we loved her. She will be a perfect fit for Jessica in second grade. Joaquin’s teacher we have never had before, but always hear wonderful things about her. He will be attending a kindergarten camp the week before school starts so he can meet his teacher and friends before the first day of school. She is the only teacher in the district who offers such a camp, but it’s a wonderful idea. They will find their way around the school and playground by way of scavenger hunts etc, so Joaquin should have a real good time.

Baseball is now over and Nate has a few weeks of a break before football starts. Emi has started cheer practice at the Junior High and is having a ball. She will be in the community parade on the 4th. Joaquin loves playing with Emi and Nate’s friends. We are finding that Jessica is shy and doesn’t like to be in front of people much, where Joaquin is pretty much the opposite. This tells me that Jess may have some self confidence issues, not major, but enough to help us in knowing how to help her handle things she may face. I thought for sure that after she saw Emi in her dance recital that she would want to dance next year, but she is not interested. She love to dance around the house, but she said dancing in front of all those people is not at all what she wants to do. We are finding new things out about them each week.

They speak of Colombia an La Maria everyday. They don’t want to go back, but would love to call La Maria and say Hi to their friends. Jessica has shared some info with us on things she remembers of her biological family. I am not sure what she actually remembers or what she remembers being told. We did receive a packet of 277 pages of their file from Colombia and found out some interesting info we had not known. We have lots of info for them someday if/when they want to know.

Also, often times when the phone rings, Joaquin will ask “Is that Colombia?”. They tell us they are happy here and love ALL of the family. The majority of my family lives within a 15 minutes of each other, so they are always asking to go and see everyone. It amazes me how they love everyone so much already, like they’ve been part of us since they were born.

Our lives have all been changed and as much as I should not be surprised, I can’t imagine two more perfect children for God to have chosen for us.

So here are a few things June held for us…
Cooled off in the back yard in the little pool (it's really for the dogs to cool off, but Joaquin thinks when we first fill it, it's for him)

Stayed over night with Mimi at Mimi, Papa and Great Grandpa Ross' house

All the little cousins got together so we could go to the zoo

It's great having big sister to pull them around while they rest their feet from the lots of walking at the z00

Took a break with Great Grandpa Ross at the Zoo

On hot days we spend time at Tia Jo's pool!

Had a few sibling moments


Walked the excercise trail at the park

We've played in the creek


More sibling moments at the park


We also enjoyed another first...cotton candy...a treat from Mimi and Papa. They thought it was very cool, but Joaquin wanted to eat it like an ice cream cone off of the stick.

18 comments:

Jennifer said...

Glad everything is going along smoothly - love the pics!!

Jen

Anonymous said...

I have to admit, it's absolutely amazing how well they've all adjusted! I just can't believe how much they've all grown and adapted in such a short amount of time! Words cannot even begin to describe the amazing transformation that has occurred since the Colombia trip! I'm proud of all 4 of you....

Love,
Tia Jeanie

Genece said...

Happy to hear about your family's adjustment! I love your updates and to see the pictures! Thanks for sharing. Cotton candy... that's one thing my kids haven't indulged in just yet. At the Air Show this weekend their grandma was hoping to treat them to some cotton candy (which Karen calls "the sugar"), but after seeing the huge long line we skipped that idea. Ahhh, some other time!

Renee said...

Glad to hear that everyone is adjusting well. The pictures are so cute. What memories.

Renee (adopting 2 from Colombia with CHI in Ohio)

abueli said...

It is truly a blessing to see how well you have bonded as a family in such a short time. The kids have all grown since Colombia. It brings me such joy to see Emi & Jess getting along so well as "sisters". The boys seem to be having alot of fun times too! It's been great following your story. My 4 grandaughters are in Medellin waiting for their Mami & Papi! (7/30) Soon-to-be "Abuela"

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Anonymous said...

Love the pictures! It sounds like all is going extremely well. I'm so glad you are able to be home this summer to help with the bonding process. Your family is truly an inspiration to others.

Margie

Dan and Karen said...

Glad to hear that things are going smoothly. Love to see all of their happy faces!

The Jensen Family said...

Your pics have sparked my interest in trying a few new things with our kids. Can't wait to introduce them to cotton candy. Don't you love the discoveries of each and every day!?

Traci

THE CALDERARO'S said...

Hi Guys...It looks like you are really enjoying this summer. What a blast! Ed and I were just wondering if you would consider adopting us:)Big hugs to the kids.

Boyacheks said...

Hey! I am just now getting caught up with whats going on with you guys. I am so glad to hear things are going so well! I love the pics!
Jaime

Anonymous said...

Hi Beth!

It is so great to get the see the world again through their eyes as they discover new things. They make the routine and familiar things seem so exciting!

I'm glad to see all the smiles on the kids faces!

Debi

David and Sheila Derr said...

Oh my, Beth, where does the time go!!!!! I am so far behind on catching up with everyone's news! I am sure you can relate with all the coming and going! Your children look so happy and I am so glad to hear that things continue to go well for you guys! And the pictures are outstanding!

Juniper said...

That was such a great blog! You all have been very busy I see...as always!! All of the pics are great!!! Could not expect the kids to look any happier. I hope that the start of the new school year does not get too stressful!! You can handle it though...you all can!!!

Love and Hugs!!!
Jenn

Greg said...

Hi! Thanks for the updates. It's great to hear everything is going so well. May God bring you many more happy days!

Greg

Sandi Lerman said...

Beth - Great pics! Would love to get together with you all some time when you get a chance before school starts! I'd also be happy to share some ideas with you from the world of ESL. Sounds like they are doing very well with everything - emotionally and linguistically - awesome! - Sandi

MALT said...

That's such a beautiful family you have there! I just cannot believe how fast your kids have grown. I only remember Emilee and Nathan as babies. Beth and Eric, great job!

Talk to you someday soon.
Tomoyuki HIMENO, writing from Paris France.

Unknown said...

Those pictures are great! What a fun summer you are having.
Rena